morning lights;

You know there was once I mentioned the term fling to Yin and she said she hates that word. And guess what. Although the word held much of a better meaning when I was feeling heartbroken, right now, it sounds plain stupid. I mean, why do people do flings anyway? To me, these people are just plain self-centred because they KNOW that they're gonna hurt the people they have their "flings" with. I mean fineeee laaa, flirt all you want, get all the stupid attention you need. But there's always a certain limit to everything one does. And if someone crosses this limit, feelings can get trodded upon and people get hurt. Or have these people forgotten that their "flings" are human too? That they too can cry themselves to sleep and for maybe, the first time in their lives, feel suicidal?

I understand that you MAY be feeling heartbroken and therefore go around looking for flings to make yourself feel better. By all means, go right ahead. But like I said, LIMITS. I mean. Why start a sort-of-relationship, make someone fall in love with you, and in the end, when you realise you don't need the fling anymore, dump him/her because the whole thing is starting to make you feel uncomfortable, and end up hurting yourself AND the fling? It'll be like a stage where you care for him/her, but you don't care enough.

Okay, I'm done now :D Phew. Time to change my header!